Norm & Pam’s Wedding

Paul, Rich and Norm at Norm and Pam's wedding
Paul, Rich and Norm at Norm and Pam’s wedding

My dad bought this 8mm camera for me from Kodak’s company store. My first movie was of Rich Stim running around on Jones Beach with his dog. The movie was only 3 minutes long with no sound but by the end of it I was out in New Jersey riding around in Steve Emry’s green van. The last shot has Steve dropping me off at Stu Strumph’s parent’s apartment in Queens.

Norm was two years behind me in high school but he lived nearby and we were friends. I was in my freshman year at Indiana when I got a call from Norm’s mom. She told me Norm had run away and he was headed out to stay with me. I don’t remember how long that stay lasted but he did return after he had finished school and I had dropped out. I introduced him to Pamela. Her parents owned the Colonial Hotel in Indianapolis and her father drove a trailer down to Bloomington, parked it on a lot near the Monon railroad and rented it out to a bunch of Pam’s friends for $35. We pooled our money, heated the trailer with the electric stove and ran the electric meter upside down for half the month to keep the bill down.

Norm came back to Rochester to get married in his parents’ house and we all gathered here. Seems like only yesterday but Dave, Chuck and Sherry have all passed away.

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Paul Dodd and Fran Dodd jump into quarry in Bloomington, Indiana
Paul Dodd and Fran Dodd jump into quarry in Bloomington, Indiana

I’ve been spending a lot of time with my youngest brother these days. Funny how that age ranking relationship disappears over time. He’s an expert mason and gets the best fancy brick (and fake brick) jobs in the city because of his reputation. We have a concrete block house so he has helped us out with repairs and a recent improvement and we always feel lucky for the time he has to spend with us.

It was the summer between my brother, Fran’s junior and senior year in high school when my parent’s had had enough. They asked if Peggi and I would take Fran for the summer and we said yes so they drove him out to Bloomington and dropped him off.

He got a part time maintenance job at Peddler’s, the woman’s clothing store that Steve Hoy’s sister ran. I was finishing concrete for a construction company and Peggi was working as a dental assistant. Dave Mahoney was working in the dorms and he lived down the street from us. We all spent a lot of time at the nearby quarries. We didn’t usually wear bathing suits but we did when my parents came back out to pick him up. My father took this photo. You can tell which one of us was more of a rebel rouser by the body language.

Jump.

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